Kiss, isn't it? The turning point. As I gently comforted my female colleague, who was downcast because a contract with a client fell through, I slowly closed the distance and naturally led to a kiss, which essentially meant I had won. Instantly, her erotic mode was switched on. Already, just from the kiss, her arousal was so intense that it could be felt through her stockings. If a kiss isn't rejected, it might not be an exaggeration to say that you can have sex with most women.